May 2012
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Female doesn't equal cis
genderbitch:
So I had the pleasure of that fuckjaw Bug pulling her same old stupid shit on twitter, saying that I’m mad that “female” exists.
I’m actually not mad that female exists, I just wish radscum actually knew what the fuck it meant.
See the funny thing about the biological category of female is that it comes in multiple flavors, all of which are arbitrary and all of which outright fail...
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Our work of love should be to reclaim masculinity and not allow it to be held...
– bell hooks, The Will to Change, p115. (via queerfatfemme)
Anonymous asked: are you planning to go see 'the beatles: the lost concert' film?
It took me a long time to realize that my partners were having sex with me in...
– Fat Sex: What Everyone Wants to Know but is Afraid to Ask (via theseasonofthewitch)
April 2012
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ConsentEd →
this is a brilliant website made by some brilliant people, on the topics of consent & building a world without sexual violence. check it out!
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The clearest example is the repeated use of the word “tolerate.” Students would...
– “Sociology of Deviancy” - Liazos (via br3nnando0o)
Fuck tolerance. I want more. I want to be embraced as I am. And I don’t want it to be a big fucking “gimme cookies, I accept you!” thing. It should just be the way it is.
(via sherlocksflataffect)
Why I hate the word “tolerance”.
(via...
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[TW: Rape, sexual assault, rape apologism] Here...
bookishboi:
mynameisnotharolddamnit:
ourben:
communismkills:
the-girl-who-believed-in-stars:
communismkills:
Rape is:
Forced penetration
Rape is not:
The guy not calling you the next day
Getting embarrassed when someone asks you who you hooked up with
Consenting to sex and then feeling bad about it later
Someone holding your hand
Someone whistling at you
You are at an increased...
TRANS COUCHSURFING NETWORK - PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST... →
asdewfedzcxx:
transcouchnetwork:
Hi! I just started a tumblr, the Transgender Couchsurfing Network. After seeing dozens of posts come across my dash about displaced or homeless trans people needing places to crash, I decided that there had to be a way to organize these posts somehow, and to put those in need in contact with those willing to lend a hand. If you’re trans and need a place to...
words that follow →
multiplayer game of photo captioning. come play!
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Because when something gives me anxiety I google...
liquornspice:
I just searched: “racial bias in treatment for anxiety disorders,” but ended up looking at another article about how white health care professionals don’t think Black people need pain management. The article is actually pretty hilarious in how sunshiny-liberal it tries to be:
College students and nurses went to greater lengths to ease the pain of members of their own race in a...
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
Dumb Things White People Say: Animorphs: Your least favourite Animorph.
musingsfromalazymind:
littlemisstagme:
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coldeyesthatburn:
patrickandmarcus:
Tobias. I liked the character because he brought another dimension to the whole story, but I like everybody else much more than him.
hhmmm this is a hard choice It would have to be cassie. she...
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I am an unapologetic marriage abolitionist, which means that I believe that the...
– Alexis Pauline Gumbs (via feministquotes)
All of this. Omg every single bit.
(via genderbitch)
Look, Kitten, I Am Too A Feminist! Fauxminism and... →
“It’s great when men identify as feminists. Really, it is. It’s great when anyone identifies as a feminist. What’s more important, however, is actually sticking to the tenets of that identity and philosophy. This is important for feminists from all walks of life, but it becomes particularly paramount when men claim the title of feminist. Many a woman-identified feminist is unwilling to speak...
"Women" vs "Girls".
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
So more than once I’ve seen some white women complain about (white) women being infantilized, treated like “girls”, treated like dainty snowflakes, and not adults, and some have complained about the use of “girl” to refer to an adult woman at all.
That’s all well and good, but let’s remember that some women are NOT infantilized in this world.
Like black women.
Black...
March 2012
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tBY JULIA MADDERA, Georgetown University ‘13... →
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thelittlekneesofbees:
To the first man, who I met by the Eiffel Tower my second week in Paris, when I didn’t know better. Who took me out four times, who waved little red flags that I tried to ignore. Like asking me outright if I was a virgin on the first date, like calling me five different pet names when I’d asked him not to...
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I'm looking for the name of this song... In the...
It kind of reminds me of an Enya song but i can’t find it and don’t know for sure if that’s the artist anyway. I saw the music video on CMT (country music television) in the late 90s/early 2000s and have been searching for it ever since! I will be so excited if someone knows what this song is.
(It worked when i was trying to find the song ‘Overdrive’ so i’m...
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Q & A with DEAN SPADE « queer couture →
violenticecream:
QT: Do you feel your essay still has relevance to today’s world and how you’re living in it?
DS: A big influence on my day-to-day fashion experiences is my job as a law professor. When I worked at SRLP, I had to go to court and deal with government agencies and officials, and I wore a suit for those things, but my working space at SRLP was an office full of trans and...
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Whenever you WANT to say 'white privilege' say...
liquornspice:
AND YOU WON’T BE CODDLING WHITE PEOPLE’S FEELINGS!!! BONUS!!!!
I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH CAPS FOR HOW MUCH I HATE THIS WHITE LIBERAL BULLSHIT USE OF ‘WHITE PRIVILEGE.’ FUCK PEGGY MCINTOSH’S KNAPSACK, I DON’T GIVE A FUCK!!!
WHEN A PERSON IS REPEATEDLY SEXUALLY AND PHYSICALLY ASSAULTED YOU ARE A FUCKING SOCIOPATH TO CALL THAT ‘WHITE PRIVILEGE.’ YOU KNOW WHAT AN ACCURATE PHRASE WOULD...
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…The fact is, while there are “good cops” out there, they must, by being cops,...
– Steampunk Emma Goldman (via moniquill)
Yeah… talk to me about good cops when they start arresting bad cops.
(via holzmantweed)
THIS THIS THIS
(via so-treu)
BOOM. So all y’all derailing motherfuckers need to come correct with it. Your idea of a good cop is just a cop who hasn’t beat down on...
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dumbthingswhitepplsay:
~A Fire Breathing T. regina~: Trans women in particular have always waited..
ellierantsforever:
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whencylonsdream:
I’m tired of waiting.
We spear-headed the queer rights movement at Stonewall. And when you stole that from us and turned it into some white-washed, cis-washed, thing that the gay cis white men...
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White people don’t get to decide if something is racist. On a much smaller...
– Anesti Vega (via anestivega)
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February 2012
33 posts
You Owe the Companies Nothing
hndrk:
mrrglover:
People are taking the piss out of you everyday. They butt into your life, take a cheap shot at you and then disappear. They leer at you from tall buildings and make you feel small. They make flippant comments from buses that imply you’re not sexy enough and that all the fun is happening somewhere else. They are on TV making your girlfriend feel inadequate. They have access to...
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girl-farts:
A modern picture book about where babies come from thats fit for every kind of family and every kind of kid.